Okay so did I miss that one day in school when they actually explained what being an adult is, because as I am beginning to tackle my life as an adult I am quickly realizing that it is not all I expected it to be, and I am quite sure that if I had been properly informed of what my 'grownup life' was going to be like, well I wouldn't have let myself grow up...Perhaps it is just all a big conspiracy, when we are kids the adults don't fully tell us what it is going to be like all grown up...We see them with their cars, nice houses, jobs, complete independence, and are intrigued and excited about being an adult...I can not remember a time when I was told "Delia, when you are an adult, you will be stressed even when you have nothing to do, especially when you have nothing to do (like a job)...Many things that were fun for you when you were little (like taking trips) will have the fun sucked out because you will have to deal with...Money" ya know I think that that is what it all boils down to, money...That is why it is not fun being an adult, you must worry 'how will I pay for this and that', 'what is my credit score', and 'will I be able to provide for my children'....So my solution, why cant we just get away from this whole money thing and just share, like children....People share with people, countries share with other countries....If we all just share then everything would be so much better, so I encourage you all revert to you days in the sand box....Wouldn't life be so much better if the world was just a great big sand box...

a tribute to the upcoming season

Jeremy Grey: John? I need to see you right away. It's important.
John Beckwith: [Walking into Jeremy's office] What's going on?
Jeremy Grey: [sighs] We got three big weeks ahead of us. It's wedding season, kid!
John Beckwith: You sandbaggin' son of a bitch!
Jeremy Grey: I've got us down for 17 of them already.
John Beckwith: Okay, now how many of them have cash bars?
Jeremy Grey: Great question. I like where your head's at and two of them actually are, but I got us covered: Purple hearts. We won't have to pay for a drink all night.
John Beckwith: Oh, yeah. Perfect.
Jeremy Grey: We are gonna have tons and tons of oppotunities to meet gorgeous ladies that so aroused at the thought of marriage that they'll throw their inhibitions to the wind.
John Beckwith: And who will be there to catch them?
Jeremy Grey: Grab that net and catch that beautiful butterfly, pal! What do you like better, Christmas or Wedding Season? [Jeremy raises his hand]
John Beckwith: Mr. Grey?
Jeremy Grey: Yes. The answer would be, um, Wedding Season? [shimmy-shakes]
John Beckwith: Bingo! I'm gonna get my suit. Now who are we this time?

new blog...new start

well i am alive, i know i haven't written in a while but a lot has happened....i moved back to Birmingham last week and have been internetless since, i finally got it all fixed today after being on the phone for over an hour with tech support....but the important thing is that i can now have contact with the online world again (which is nice since i am still in online classes)...so now i sit in my new beautiful living room with dixie and belle and a lovely case of bronchitis, waiting on the men from lowes to deliver my washer and dryer!!! so those are pretty much the big updates: starting pharmacy school in august and living in birmingham now...next week i am going to UAB to fill out the paper work to restart my job there, i have really enjoyed my time no get reacquainted but i am anxious to start working and making money...since i have been back it has been wonderful, charles and i have gotten to spend so much time together catching up and reaquainting ourselves with each other and our relationship, we are both so happy that i am back and my normal self again....i am starting to get to know some charles's new friends and hope that soon they will not just be my friends 'thorough' charles, but actually my friends...i have had the opportunity to sit in on some rehearsals with concert choir working on the mozart that we are performing in new york and that has been wonderful, i missed singing so much and love that i am getting the chance to do some now, i also had a voice lesson last week, it was nice to know i haven't lost everything that i worked for by not singing for 8 months, i also just starting singing at mountain brook baptist church and so far i really enjoy the people and the church...all in all things are awesome....i am very happy and very content which is something that i haven't been able to say in a very long time...hopefully my new good spirits will cause me to blog a little more (for i know i have been bad lately) to keep everyone up-to-date with everything that is happening....Thank you to everyone who has stuck by me in this difficult transition, it really has meant the world to me, i love you all!!!